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根据下面内容,回答题 Praiseisapowerfultoolbutmanyparentshavemisconceptionsaboutwhatitdoesandhowitworks.Praiseencouragesmotivationandconfidence,butasurprisingnumberofpeoplethinkit'sthecauseofjealousy,lazinessandresentment.Whatarethemostcommonassumptionsaboutpraise?
"There'snoneedtosayanything."
Ifthingsaregoingwell,youmaythinkthere'snoneedtosayanything.Thisattitudecanbesummedupas"ifIdon'tsayanything,theneverything'sOK".Whatthisreallymeansis"I'llonlysaysomethingwhenthereissomethingtocriticize".
"IfIsay'welldone',they'11stoptrying."
Doyouthinkthatifyoucomplimentyourchildrenthey'11slackoff?Ifwearepraisedforajobwelldone,itgenerallyencouragesustodobetter,notworse.Thedisappointmentwefeelwhengoodworkisnotrecognizedgivesrisetothefeeling"whyshouldIbotherifnobodynotices?"
"IfIpraiseone,theotherswillbejealous."
Ifyouarehonestandfairinyourpraiseandrecognizethespecialtalentsofeachchild,theywon'tresentpraisegiventotheirsiblings(兄弟姐妹).Eachwillfeelvaluedfortheuniqueindividualstheyare.Childrenwhofeelgoodaboutthemselvesareusuallygenerousintheirpraiseofotherpeople.Neverusepraiseofoneasawayofimplicitly(含蓄地)criticizinganother.Forexample,"you'realwayssocheerful..."withitsimpliedmessage"...unlikeyourmoodybrother".
"Whatifthere'snothingtopraise?"
Thereisalwayssomethingtopraise.Youhavetocatchyourchilddoingsomethingright.Haveapositiveattitudetothethingshedoesandrememberthepraisemustalwaysbegenuine.Yourchildwillquicklysensewhenyouarelying.
Manyparentshavemisunderstandingsabout__________. A.howpowerfulpraiseis
B.whatpraiseis
C.whatpraisedoesandhowitworks
D.howtogivegenuinepraisestotheirchildren
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